What would you guys call this? Relationship? Friendship? Complicated? 10 points to the best answer?

Oh boy. This sounds remarkably like a situation I was in with a guy last year and that situation was definitely complicated. (I'm a senior girl by the way, he was a year ahead of me, but we were in drama club together and were both in the same types of honors cles). Anyway, he did the same kind of thing with me that this girl is doing, flirted but never said he really liked me. We were comfortably friends and we were flirty and complimentary of each other all the time, so there was no way he didn't know I liked him, in fact I think I caught him joking about it several times with his other friends. Eventually I asked him out and he turned me down, told me he only thought of me as a friend. If I had to guess, I'd say that's how this girl thinks of you. I'm sorry to break this to you but she's kind of a tease. She might like you as a friend, but I wouldn't pin my hopes too high on it going any farther than that. If it's any consolation, she doesn't know what she's missing, you sound irresistable to me :-) Good luck dealing with this complicated relationship.