What do I do after my girlfriend of 4 years just broke up with me? I'm still in love with her.?

Well, if you do get her back, expect this cycle to repeat itself. Also, don't expect her to change and not be rigid when it comes to getting her way ( especially with food ) . Are you really in love with her? Or have you just become comfortable in this relationship, and challenging yourself to test the waters elsewhere is too much work? You spoke the truth when you said to her you needed to get out of the relationship. I would agree.